My brother is building a house. It’s going to be beautiful—if he ever finishes it. You see, my brother is a perfectionist. He insists on completing every task himself. In fact, he’s taken the term “self-build” to dizzying new heights. And honestly? That’s fine. It’s his passion project, and he’s in no rush. He’s enjoying…
I remember sitting in the hallway, nervously waiting for a job interview. My hands were clammy, and my mind was racing. As I glanced around, my eyes landed on the walls. They were covered in framed pictures of inspiring quotes. “Eugh,” I thought. “How cheesy.” I immediately judged the company. This isn’t the kind of…
We all have those quiet little voices in our heads, don’t we? They tell us what we can and can’t do, who we are, and what we deserve—or don’t. These voices are called self-limiting beliefs. They impact our careers, relationships, and self-worth—often without us realizing it. Sometimes, these beliefs feel like facts. They shape how…
Do you ever feel like everyone’s support system but your own? Emotional boundaries help us prevent this by defining where our feelings end and another’s begin. They act as limits for how others treat us and help us manage their emotions without neglecting our own needs. Without strong boundaries, it’s easy to feel overwhelmed, stressed,…
We’ve all heard stories of people transforming their lives through the power of manifesting, popularized by the film and book The Secret. It sparked a global craze, making it sound so simple: you want something, you think about it, you believe it’s going to happen, and it does. Simple, right? But if manifesting is that…
As the Beatles sang, “All you need is love.” Yet, for many of us, finding and keeping love isn’t that simple. Deep down, hidden beliefs can hold us back, even when we want love the most. These limiting beliefs about love often shape how we see ourselves, others, and relationships. But here’s the thing: these…
When COVID-19 lockdown began, I found myself at a crossroads. I’d just ended another relationship, and once again, it was with someone who couldn’t meet me emotionally. Instead of staying in the same pattern, I decided it was time to make a real change. Lockdown gave me time to take a closer look at myself,…
Throughout my career, I’ve had the privilege of working alongside several self-made millionaires, each with their own unique path to wealth and success. It made me wonder: was it luck that brought them to where they are, or was there something deeper at play? I couldn’t help but notice a striking pattern in how they…
As my career in accountancy grew, so did my salary. But no matter how much I earned, there was never more money in the bank. I spent it as quickly as it came in, always returning to the same financial spot. It wasn’t until later that I realized I was stuck in a pattern controlled…
Is there too much month at the end of your money? Do you feel like no matter how hard you work, you just can’t break through to the next level of financial freedom? If so, you’re not alone. Many people struggle with limiting beliefs about money—those subconscious thoughts that keep us stuck financially. These beliefs…
